YOU (Your Own Universe) presents

My Living
YOUlogy

With Cassidy

enter

An evening of heart-channelled music, in a container curated and held
by the witnessing of those who have nestled their way into my beating heart.

“We’re all born and we all die.”
This I believe to be the true beauty of life.

I invite you to join me as I step into the uncomfortable,
allowing my shadows the space to dance with the light.

02 · 03 · 2026  ·  6:00pm – 9:00pm  ·  TBC (sent upon RSVP)

(You are invited as one of those heart nestlers)

An evening of music,
reflection & presence

A space where love and truth can be spoken
while we’re still here to hear them.

This is not a funeral — but it is me, so the dramatic depth is on brand.

On the contrary, it’s actually my version of a birthday celebration. It is an ode to the multi-layered beings that we are, symbolising the death and memory of what no longer serves me, as I make space for my choice of becoming.

The concept of this YOUlogy is to curate a space so the unseen and unheard parts of me feel safe enough to display their depths through the art of expression. I intend on inverting the four walls that have heard me cry out — so I can offer permission to all of us to be heard and seen in all of our moving parts.

I’ll be sharing songs written (if I can remember the lyrics 😉) and yet to be forged
that are true and too vulnerable for me to share in any environment.

Despite me being the centre of attention for this event —
it’s not just for me. It’s for the collective.
It’s for all of us.

Before attending
this YOUlogy

  • Pre-written YOUlogy — instructions in the RSVP form. Bring it with you to burn. Your words will be for your eyes only; if fire rules and venue allow, we shall send them into the ether — signifying the transmutation and transition into the life you choose to live.
  • Childhood totem / teddy bear / stuffed animal — more than one is allowed. The space can never have too many, and someone else who doesn’t have one may appreciate the gesture. They will represent your inner children and mine — able to be seen, held and loved in a safe space.

Because this isn’t just my story — it’s ours. The eulogy invites you to contemplate life after death, while the childhood totem evokes life before we even conceptualised living. Together, they hold the bookends of our existence: the innocence we arrived with and the wisdom we’ll leave behind.

This is a collective experience of welcoming the vulnerable — the light and the dark, the seen and unseen. By honouring both the children we once were and the inevitable end we’ll all meet, we create space to let go into the becoming of who we are now.

With gratitude and love for the small beings who got us here,
and compassion for the beings we’re still becoming.

Your child self deserves to be witnessed. Your whole self does.

You are in control
of your experience

This event holds space for emotional depth, but it is not therapy. It is not ritual in a formal sense. It is not designed to extract catharsis from you.

  • If you feel uncomfortable at any point, the invitation is to sit and be with those emotions. If it does get too much, you are more than welcome to respectfully go outside for some fresh air at any point.
  • I ask for presence and minimal chatter while music is being played.
  • You may sit in silence the entire time.
  • You may feel nothing, and that is completely okay.
  • You may cry, laugh, or remain unmoved — there is no “right” response.

No one will ask anything of you that you don’t offer.
This is not a performance of grief. It’s not a demand for vulnerability.

It’s an experiment in being alive together — with whatever that brings.

Privacy
& Consent

Photography & Videography

Your childhood totem will be seen by those in the room. I request that no photographs or videos be taken for the duration of the event — especially no photos or videos of the altar at any point. The only captures that may take place will be from a designated photographer/videographer.

Your YOUlogy

Your own pre-written YOUlogy will be for your eyes only. If fire rules and venue allow, we shall burn them with fire as we send the prayers off into the ether, signifying the transmutation and transition into the life you choose to live.

To reiterate: these are not expectations. Not performances.
They are open invitations.

This is a
donation-based event

There is no ticket price. No expectation. No transaction standing between you and this space.

You are invited to give what this evening is worth to you —
whether that is a coin, a note, or simply the gift of your presence.

Art does not have a fixed price. Only a felt one.

Can’t make it? Feeling generous from afar?

If you won’t be in the room but still feel called to support the art, or if you’d like to send something ahead — you are so warmly welcome to.

Use “My Living YOUlogy” as your transaction reference —
that way I’ll know exactly whose heart reached across the distance.

PayID

0425 210 973

Cassidy Dugan

Bank Transfer

BSB 013 402
ACC 195 604 022

Cassidy Dugan

Bitcoin

Scan the QR code on the donation card at the venue,
or ask Cassidy for the wallet address on the night.

A note on where your offering goes

10% of all funds raised on the night go directly to the Empatherapy Fund — supporting people who are seeking therapy but may not be able to afford it.

Your generosity doesn’t just honour the art.
It holds space for someone else’s healing.

A donation vessel will also be present on the evening for cash offerings.
Whatever you choose to offer is received with gratitude and without judgement.

Reserve your place

Press the seal to open your invitation and confirm your attendance. The form also contains the instructions for your pre-written YOUlogy.

I am coming Open invitation

If something stirs in you — a memory, a prayer, an intention,
a truth you haven’t yet spoken — I invite you to offer it
through the RSVP form, in the space provided.

Leave your reflection →

The door is open.
Come as you are.

02 · 03 · 2026  ✦  With love, Cassidy